<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><!-- generator=Zoho Sites --><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><atom:link href="https://www.healingtogether.life/blogs/tag/trauma-in-relationships/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title>Healing Together - Healing Reflections #trauma in relationships</title><description>Healing Together - Healing Reflections #trauma in relationships</description><link>https://www.healingtogether.life/blogs/tag/trauma-in-relationships</link><lastBuildDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 16:23:12 +0200</lastBuildDate><generator>http://zoho.com/sites/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[THE COST OF BEING “GOOD"]]></title><link>https://www.healingtogether.life/blogs/post/the-cost-of-being-good-people-pleasing-trauma-healing</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.healingtogether.life/images/TT/traume.webp"/>A longform Healing Reflections essay exploring people-pleasing as a trauma adaptation, a cultural inheritance, and a nervous-system survival strategy — and how truth, boundaries, and authenticity lead us back to belonging.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[A longform Healing Reflections essay exploring people-pleasing as a trauma adaptation, a cultural inheritance, and a nervous-system survival strategy — and how truth, boundaries, and authenticity lead us back to belonging.]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2025 22:39:57 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Starlight and Black Holes: The Balance of Love and the Alchemy of Healing Together]]></title><link>https://www.healingtogether.life/blogs/post/starlight-and-black-holes-the-balance-of-love-and-the-alchemy-of-healing-together</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.healingtogether.life/images/TT/BDA0EFBE-FFCF-4541-87CF-4E327C65A051.webp"/>In this Healing Reflections essay, counsellor and facilitator Martyn Blacklock explores how relationships mirror the balance of Yin and Yang, how tension can create either collapse or starlight, and how we can turn triggers into opportunities for healing through the practice of rupture and repair.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[In this Healing Reflections essay, counsellor and facilitator Martyn Blacklock explores how relationships mirror the balance of Yin and Yang, how tension can create either collapse or starlight, and how we can turn triggers into opportunities for healing through the practice of rupture and repair.]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2025 15:24:44 +0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>